How can the life of Ben Carson relate to your own personal goals? Ben Carson relates to me in numerous ways and reasons. First, he some what had a temper problem. I can get pretty infuriated when people aggravate me. To add to that he had a stepping stone. I also have a stepping stone and it my family they keep me going when I want to give up. Last of all, he had a goal. I have a goal, mine is to not give up and keep going. As you can see me and Mr. Carson realte to each other very well.